how to have a godly relationship

It is really hard to describe ones personality. The same with me, but I’ll try. My friends tell that I’m very sociable, kind and creative person. My colleagues tell that I’m very responsible and modest. My relatives know that I’m loyal, loving, caring, calm, funny and energetic. He must be affectionate, sensual, sensitive, passionate, creative, charming, romantic. From Finland, Sweden Age from 40 till 58